Greetings!
Everyday, you make decisions large and small.
All your decisions affect your future--how
your life turns out--in some way. Everything
you do counts. I didn't always believe that
everything counted. A year or so ago, I heard
someone say, "Either everything you do is
important or nothing is." I thought the
statement was hyperbole. Not everything?!
Surely some things don't count. I was wrong.
Everything, every little move you make, adds
up into who and what you are, and more
importantly, the future you create and live in.
If the future is embedded in the present, and
everything counts, then what decisions and
little actions can you take every day that
create a life that results in greatness? I
want to know the answers to these questions.
Not only that, I want to live the answers.
How about you? If being great--living a life
of greatness--is a choice, would you want to
live that life? What would that life make
possible for you? For the people around you?
For the world?
- If you want great performance from
yourself, the first step is to say you can.
In this article, you'll see how your beliefs
make what you do possible or impossible. It's
all in saying that you can.
- I believe that recognizing and nurturing
the best in others is essential to personal
greatness. To learn how theater director
Scott Palmer elicits great performances from
his ensembles, check out the excerpt from our
interview.
We'll be on hiatus in August, so enjoy the
rest of your summer. See you in September!
Peace be with you,
Tara
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Say You Can
The first step is that you have to say
that you can.--Will Smith
One pitfall of focusing on your goals is that
sometimes you can get very focused on what's
missing. In our culture, we're taught that to
rectify what's missing, we must work very,
very hard to get to the goal, keeping our
eyes on the prize. There's a problem with
that approach, though. Staying locked onto
what you're working toward can put you into a
"don't have" mindset. By extension, "don't
have" can turn into "can't have."
What I mean by that is while you are working
toward your goal, thousands of little
thoughts flit through your head that say,
"you haven't succeeded yet." These thoughts
have a way of going to an extreme. Words like
can't, always, never, should have, could
have, would have creep in. You may find
yourself obsessively comparing your progress
to someone else's--negatively or positively.
Or you may find yourself thinking that
whatever you do is not enough: not good
enough, not smart enough, not fast enough.
Just plain inadequate. These thoughts all
have the same effect: masking progress and
signs of success.
When you spend all your time focused on what
you don't have yet, what you do have--which
is right under your nose--goes unnoticed. I'm
not saying don't be goal focused. Quite the
opposite. You should have your goals written
down and you should review that list every
day. But once you've reviewed the list, your
focus should be on what will you do today
that will make certain you take at least one
step toward the goal. At the end of the day,
the last thought should be on acknowledging
the progress. Any progress. Because
everything you do counts. Everything.
When you say that you can, you create
possibility. If you say you can't, you've
made that so, whether you're aware of it or
not. In the quote that begins this post, Will
Smith was responding to the interviewer's
response to his can-do-anything attitude. She
told him that just because she could read a
physics book didn't mean she could become a
physicist. To which Will Smith replied, "The
first step is that you have to say that you
can."
Everyday, you and I speak possible
futures--sometimes highly desired ones--out
of existence just by letting the "can't"
dwell in our heads. Is it possible to rid our
thoughts of the negative? One thing I know
for sure is it's possible to put new thoughts
into your head on purpose. If you say you
can, then it's a choice between will I or
won't I? That puts this thing into a whole
new realm, doesn't it? Instead of residing in
a place of impossibility, you're living in
possibility and choice.
What do you want to achieve? Remind yourself
that you can. Take one step toward your goal
today.
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Much Ado About Greatness
An Interview with Director Scott Palmer
Needy, arrogant, wanting to be the center of
attention, and very insecure. Doesn't sound
like someone you'd want to hire, does it? Not
to Scott Palmer. Scott expects the people he
directs to be like that--and also bold,
highly motivated, and talented. Scott is a
theater director and acting coach who loves
watching great performances. So that means
rounding up the best actors he can find to
put on his innovative adaptations of
Shakespeare's classics. This summer, Scott is
directing Much Ado
About Nothing in an outdoor performance at
Oregon State University in Corvallis,
Oregon. To find out what his secrets are
for getting great performances out of people
others might find difficult, I sat down with
Scott at a sunny Corvallis café recently.
According to Scott, getting the right people
is the most important part of the process.
And it's not always possible to get someone
with the perfect skill set for the role at
hand, either. For example, to cast Much Ado
About Nothing, which will be performed
outdoors in a football field sized venue,
it's just about impossible to find someone
who has done that kind of acting before. He
looks for people who can be boldly decisive.
"I don't want someone to make the right
decision so much as to make a decision. I
want them to make a choice. People who are
willing to take risks."
Read the full article online...
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